Relationship is like a ring on your finger!

Yea.. that sounds funny! Just think, you have new ring on your finger. You flaunt it for a week- collect all the praises that you get for its beauty, design, quality etc etc... Then exhibit it around for a month to people who notice its new, then months pass by, years follow. Eventually forget that its even exist on your finger...

why??
Cause you take it for granted. You know that its there on your finger, it is a nice one, fits you perfectly(so u know u won't lose it). Finally, after an amount of time, you realize that you have grown fat, the ring has lost its glow, it has faded, but it is still sitting there on ur finger hugging it. Alas, now however, you don't like the hug coz, its too tight rather than the warm feeling it used be.

But then, someone you meet after a long time (a friend or ur protector) tells you that your ring is still very beautiful and a unique one. So, you again feel proud of it. Now you want to cherish it rather than exhibiting. So u struggle and remove it off ur finger, with nice lubricant; then wash your ring, polish it. Though it don't look as good as a bright new one, but still it is glowing and you feel good. You try to put it back... and it won't fit.

Now what do you do? You want the ring, you know its your, made for you and its unique.
So now I start to reduce myself, and then again use some lubricant and push the ring back again. Wow, it fits fine. I am so happy and blushing with joy, thanking the friend/ my protector who told me that ring is very beautiful even when I hardly cared for it.

Take my word! all may not be lucky enough to have the friend I found to tell that my ring was beautiful..
So don't take relations for granted dears...
let all of you have the best relationship a human can have.