Matrimony

I know I don’t have many years of married life in my kitty yet, and neither have I gained a doctorate in relationships…

Why this subject then?  

on 07-01-2007

       I guess; I have been given so many opportunities by life to   witness peoples’ life. From childhood, I am surrounded by friends elder to me, family members like uncles and cousin who got married when I had an ability to understand various phase they were going through. Above all this, learning from my parents and now in laws.(elaboration on the learning's can make many other posts in future)
     

      Marriage has always been portrayed as a biggest decision or life changing moment in a girl’s life by all around her, since the time she is born (I am not trying to be gender biased here!) It’s true! People think about a guy’s wedding only after her has settled down with a good job, a house etc… etc… needed to secure his future family, however a girls is to be just married off!
        

      Thus the whole concept of getting married sound like a burden to both the boy as well as the girl. It need not be so. This relationship should and always must be of equality, care, & faith traveling together in a vehicle of love. Wow sound so philosophical… But then the villain, Mr. Practicality creeps in.

Am I sounding like a drama queen! 
         

nice tiara na!

         Anyways, what I have learned from husband & wives of the 80’s, then from those of 90’s and finally from current generation one and have kind of combined with what my religion teach me is that, men are very bizarre beings; they know everything but understand nothing and needs to be given credit for everything! (I know no my husband is going to laugh at this!) 
                 

         If both the partner doesn’t lose their identity while experiencing love, respect and faith to the other and can set an example to their kids; the essence of this relationship is proficiently relished.